Challenges make part of our life and it is good!

Well, there is a time in life that we must stop everything we are doing and do readjustments or simply restart…
If we look around, we will figure out the number of people who restart completely their life or did significant adjustments.
People who get married or who get divorced.
People who started to work with something absolutely new and different.
Or people who moved to another city or country… I could do a huge list, but I think you get what I mean. All of these situation completely change the lifestyle of a person.
These days have been the most difficult of my life and I am saying it because of the challenges I’m living.
To restart it is not easy because it is necessary to forget the old routine, habits and costumes for something new and unknown. Is it exciting? Yes, it is, but I must prepare myself for it or otherwise I’d suffer a lot. I left behind who I was and everything is now in a certain distance… I just kept my knowledge, my experience and my memories.
All I am trying to do is to be someone better, bigger and achieve the happiness I believe I deserve and improve my quality of life.
Well, this difficult moment teaches me all the time and I must be clever to not lose the lesson. Sometimes it’s so hard and stressful that I think I will not get it all. Nevertheless, I keep in mind that my happiness depends on it so I look inside of me and I find the strength to go on.
Something inside me was asking me to change all my habits, to leave comfort zone and move my life to begin again.
When I decided and chose this massive change in my life I thought the meaning of all and if I would be brave enough, ready and strong to do it all different. Perhaps more pleasant, effective and happy for me, but not easier.
I made a choice, it was difficult and I’m happy I have done it, because now I know the love by myself, also my maturity, courage to face my life and it showed me that I was able to do more than I imagined.
Now, I wish to myself: strength to overcome this step and start the next one. Luck, focus, improvement and no regret!

I’m stronger than my sadness

The dissatisfaction is something that disable the person, makes the person weak. If you are in this situation now, you must break free… Break free from all the things that confine you, that make you sad, weak and without a perspective of a better life.
If you are not happy, please think about things you like or you dislike and then make a plan to your life and be brave to change it for something better.
I was really sad about the life I has been living, so I planned a change and I am executing it right now.
I am restarting my life.
And a restart is not easy.
It is not easy left behind people you love and want close to you.
It is not easy to leave the routine behind.
But I have been confident and brave, so I will win.
But some questions you should do to yourself: “what do I want in my life?”, “what is important to me?, “what would be good to change in my life?” and “why this is important to me?”
Answer the questions, think about your life, create new questions…
Plan.
Try.
Learn.
I have so many things to fix, but I try to solve them and learn the lesson.
And I keep brave, hopeful and smiling about my success, about realise my simple dream.
Whatever be your will, I wish you bravery, hopes, smiles and success.
And a 2014 full of achievements.
See you there!

Getting to know

Some people get close to one another, intending to get to know this person, but do not absolutely want it… To know someone is not easy and requires patience.
You must have interest.
Affection.
Care.
And attention.
Coexistence does not always mean that you know the other. And it does not matter if you spied on the other or stalked the other during the coexistence… It seems to me that when you want to know about the other, by force, a kind of scorn begins to prevail and then, nothing goes right … The situation gets nasty and unsustainable.
Indeed, getting to know about the other means to be interested and available… And also to be curious to know and learn, because to know someone is a constant learning and a challenge!!
It tests your nerves, your observation, your feelings, your humour, your self-knowledge and why not say your limits.
Needs good communication to discover the other slowly, gain his/ her confidence and that this person can count on you for everything. To have a conversation is a great way to do it, sometimes more jokes than serious and the reverse… However, the most important is to be true and sincere in every situation.
I enjoy learning without the other realising that they are teaching me. What excites me is to be conscious of how our lives are enriched by the experience of the other.
I think that getting to know the other requires that you probably write a print of his/her biography in your mind and in your heart, because it is in your life, in your feelings (deep or not). It is a fact that when you think about somebody, when you deal with people you definitely feel something – good or bad. If you feel nothing, you must review if it is worth or not to keep in touch.
I would like to let you think about this quote which I like so much but unfortunately I don’t know the author: “The greatest gift you can give someone is your time. Because when you give your time, you are giving a portion of your life that you will never get back.”
Are you giving to yourself the opportunity of knowing marvellous people?